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smooches asked on 3/3/2010 2:23:26 PM Report this post
Here is my story ladies..any advice would be great..I was prego for a little over 5 weeks. Woke up on February 14, with blood and cramps like AF has arrived. DH took me to the ER. did U/S and blood work only to find out my HCG level was 20. The Doctor said i had miscarried and it was absorded by my body and it appears that the blood now is AF was lasted for 5 days. DH and i were very excited about having our first child so you know the pains was very hurtful..But i have not accepted the fact that everything happens for a reason. I am 26 DH 26 as well. DR stated i am in good health and everything looks good. It's just one of these things with mother nature and we should try again.
I don't chart tempts or anything, I came of the ring in late september and got prego in January. My period is very regular. DH and i have been bd since then..I only follow the hart on here when i O based on the AF time i indicated. According to the chart, i am 5 dpo Lately i have been feeling pains as if AF is coming but it's very light. My question is should i wait and see if AF will show before testing? or whatelse could be going on?

kochemap said on 3/3/2010 4:59:05 PM Report this post
I understand how you feel. Me and my husband has been trying for a baby for 10 years and when it finally happened I had a miscarriage in Nov 09. This was a horrible experience for me, because I couldn't understand what went wrong. I already have a 12 year old son and had a perfect pregancy. I went to the doctor 2 days before I had my m/c and the doctor said everything looked good. I'm still totally confused, but I know God is going to bless me with another child. If I was you I would probably give it a couple of days before testing, but I know how sometimes we get so excited and we can't wait. Do wants going to be best for you. I hope everything works out for you. :)

smooches said on 3/3/2010 5:59:02 PM Report this post
Im so sorry to hear about your stroy. i hope you get your bpf. Is it possible to get pregnant right after a MC?

weemace73 said on 3/5/2010 2:56:58 PM Report this post
Hey smooches,

Yes it is possible to get pregnant very soon after a MC. I too started bleeding at 5 weeks and had to go to the ER for a D&C actually. Most doctors tell you to wait a cycle before trying but some say your body won't get pregnant until it's ready. If your hcg levels dropped back to pre-prego levels, then you can get pregnant right away. I was hoping that I would get one immediately but it's been 5 months and no luck. I'm not sure I'd count last month though because BD timing was really bad so I should really say 4. If you google "pregnant after miscarriage" you will find tons of stories of women who got pregnant before getting their next period and the baby turned out nice and healthy.

I hope you get your BFP soon!!! Sorry to hear about yours and kocehmap's story. MCs are horrible and it's a shame that a lot of us have to go through them.

Baby dust.

smooches said on 3/5/2010 3:15:57 PM Report this post
Hey Weemace,

Again, sorry to hear about your lost...thanks for the advice and support. I will keep you posted.
lots of baby sticky dust!!!!

Cinnamon said on 3/5/2010 4:07:49 PM Report this post
Sorry for your loss. I hope you will soon get your sticky one!

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